It feels awesome to date guys with that perfect
But if you are that couch potato who would be better off binge watching with a bowl of popcorn, it does feel difficult to deal with them when they are so much dedicated
What a Dedicated Fitness Enthusiast Brings You
Lectures and fitness mantras
There is constant number of facts flowing from them about the advantages of being fit, health facts and how refreshing it is to hit the gym, and you keep wondering when did sweating like hell becomes refreshing. If you think refreshment is munching a pack of French fries and sipping coke. Be ready to hear these lectures on a regular basis.
If you stay with your boyfriend, you always end up seeing clothes drenched in sweat lying around your house. Don’t you even dare to delay throwing them for a wash. You don’t want to have a house that is stinking or your boyfriend running around the house searching for his gym wear.
Protein shake bottles
Your kitchen sink will be filed with protein shake bottles. And you get to see all the new arrivals in the market, while all you know is coke and other carbonated drinks.
Prepare to be in the gym
In no time he will start giving you all the motivational speeches to join
Favorite food and restaurants
You no longer visit those fancy restaurants which
Juice cleanses or crab cycling whatever is the fad, he will let you know about it and you are upto date with all the information.
Almost all fitness enthusiast rise early to hit the gym, while you are rolling on your bed wondering what to have for breakfast.
You know how difficult it is to move things around within
Dedicated and devoted
You know his dedication towards gym; this shows even if the task is really tricky and difficult, he will try his hand. Similarly, he will be dedicated and works towards your relationship.
They can do things they don’t want to
Not every time they love eating bland foods for the sake of fitness. They hate them
With all the pros and cons listed out, at the end of the day you know dedicated fitness enthusiast are healthy and have well-built bodies that can make many ladies go “wow”.
But when this dedication does become obsession...
Anything in excess is not
There are certain problems associated with these obsessed guys. They believe in bodily perfection and turn out to be more sexist and objectify women. They choose girls with slim and slender bodies. They expect too
Not all of them have the same issues; their recent addiction to
What to do when he is obsessed
Try to confront him about his issues. Ask what has caused him to take up so much of exercising. He might get defensive with phrases like “staying healthy”. But when you realize he has crossed the limits of just hitting the gym to an obsession, it's time you interfere and stop him.
Explain why you feel that he has crossed the limits of dedication and entered the region of obsession. Also let him know about the ill effects of too much workout and how it is putting strain on your relationship.
to his gym instructor about his workout pattern because a professional advice will make him think. talking
Join gym with him occasionally. Spending time with your partner will let him limit his stress and is also healthy
Observe what is making him spend so
. much time there
to a doctor or counselor. It is similar to drug addiction requires lot of attention before it goes completely out of hand. talking
As a girlfriend, it is your responsibility to check on your partner’s unhealthy obsession or addiction. After all you care for him.